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By Kelley Hughes
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October 17, 2025
Meeting with your divorce attorney can feel overwhelming. You're asked for details about your finances, assets, and future needs - often at a time when emotions are running high. Without preparation, it's easy to feel lost or to leave important things unsaid.
By Kelley Hughes
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September 19, 2025
Divorce isn't just a separation - it's often a financial reset, a moment of clarity, and sometimes the start of an entirely new chapter. As we step into 2025, the landscape of divorce in the U.S. is shifting in ways that directly impact women's lives, finances, and futures.
By Kelley Hughes
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July 9, 2025
Last week, I met with a woman in her early 50s who was preparing to separate from her husband. They share three children-two are grown and out on their own, and their youngest still has two years of high school to go. Like many women I work with, her biggest concern was understanding the financial side of the divorce. She's been a stay-at-home mom for nearly 20 years, having left a promising career to raise her family. Now, she finds herself financially dependent on her husband-and completely in the dark about their finances.
By Kelley Hughes
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May 21, 2025
Filing for divorce is not just an emotional decision - it's a financial one too. The more you organize your finances before the divorce process begins, the better prepared you'll be to protect your interests, negotiate from a position of strength, and move forward with confidence. At Smart Divorce Decisions, we help women navigate these crucial early steps.
By Kelley Hughes
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May 7, 2025
Divorce is one of life's most emotionally and financially challenging transitions. For women, the financial implications can be even more significant - impacting everything from daily cash flow to long-term retirement. At Smart Divorce Decisions, LLC, we work with women every day to help them avoid costly mistakes and move forward with clarity and confidence.
By Kelley Hughes
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June 21, 2024
I've talked with many women going through abuse and I've seen some experience a mental paralysis around leaving the situation. Many clients report "feeling stuck" because they don't know how they can afford to leave. If they leave without the chance to prepare, they're left vulnerable to homelessness or reconciliation out of financial necessity.
By Kelley Hughes
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March 22, 2024
My commitment to this cause stems from a realization that financial abuse, a prevalent yet often overlooked form of domestic violence, leaves deep scars on its survivors. It's a silent epidemic I'm determined to combat by empowering women with the knowledge to recognize its early signs and the courage to seek help.
By Kelley Hughes
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March 14, 2024
As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, I serve as a financial advocate for my clients going through divorce. It's a perspective informed by my personal experience, leading me to advocate strongly for engaging a financial advisor who specializes in divorce before negotiations are settled. Here's why this proactive approach can make a significant difference.
By Kelley Hughes
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December 26, 2023
I know the divorce process can be daunting--filled with legal jargon and dates you need to keep track of. I remember how much time I spent researching the steps I should take and the questions I should be asking my attorney when I was first separated. I remember constantly feeling like there was something I should be doing, but I didn't know what it was. I remember bombarding my attorney with emails asking questions, and not hearing back because the questions weren't relevant to where we were in the actual process. This constant state of wondering increased my stress and anxiety, and amped up the sense of hostility in the whole process. Looking back, I realize how much easier it would have been if I'd had someone else besides my attorney who could answer my questions--most of which involved my financial situation.
By Kelley Hughes
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November 9, 2022
I remember feeling like the pain was going to kill me when my ex-husband moved out. I'd been a stay-at-home Mom for fifteen years, a third of my lifetime and all my hopes, dreams and expectations for my future at that time involved him-playing with our grandchildren together, attending our children's graduations and weddings, and supporting each other through our parents' deaths. My family was my world, and my life revolved around them. At first, I focused on keeping my children's routine stable-I tried to act like he was just away on a business trip. Mealtimes were the same, their after-school activities went on, and we dealt with their tears as they came-usually during dinnertime when he wasn't there and we couldn't avoid reality. The first weekend the kids went to stay at his new home, though, I literally could not get up off the couch for an entire day. For the first time in years, I had the house to myself--I didn't even have my sweet puppy with me that weekend because I'd thought it would help the kids' transitions if she went to his house with them.
