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Financial Advocacy Before Negotiations

March 14, 2024

As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, I serve as a financial advocate for my clients going through divorce. It's a perspective informed by my personal experience, leading me to advocate strongly for engaging a financial advisor who specializes in divorce before negotiations are settled. Here's why this proactive approach can make a significant difference.


Strategic Financial Planning

Divorce is not just the end of a marriage; it's the untangling of a shared financial life. Early on, seeking financial advice provides an opportunity for strategic financial planning, ensuring that decisions today support your long-term financial well-being. It's about laying a foundation for your future, informed by a thorough look at of your assets, liabilities, income, and expenses. This level of preparation is invaluable, as it prepares you for a clear understanding of what you need to lead a stable financial future.

The decisions made during divorce negotiations are often irreversible, affecting your financial situation for years. Seeking financial advice early ensures that you're making informed decisions. This guidance is crucial, whether evaluating the long-term implications of keeping the family home or understanding the tax consequences of dividing retirement accounts. Knowledge is power, especially in divorce negotiations, where the stakes are high, and the impact is long-lasting.

Divorce can be fraught with financial pitfalls, from underestimating living expenses post-divorce to overlooking the value of future benefits like pensions. A financial advocate can show you how to avoid mistakes that could jeopardize your financial stability. For example, understanding the nuances of asset valuation and how to divide them equitably can prevent you from agreeing to a settlement that looks fair on paper but is financially unbalanced.

Divorce is as much an emotional process as it is a legal one. Having a financial advocate by your side provides emotional support, offering a calming, objective perspective during a tumultuous time. This support is invaluable, as financial decisions made under stress are often regretted later. Think of a financial advocate as a steady hand, guiding you through the process with empathy.

The ultimate goal of engaging a financial advocate before the divorce negotiations are settled is to navigate the divorce itself and prepare for life afterward. It's more than dividing assets; it's about building a new financial identity. From budgeting for a single-income household to planning for retirement as an individual, early financial guidance ensures that you're not just surviving post-divorce but thriving.

Why I Advocate for Early Engagement

My encouragement for engaging a financial advocate early in the divorce process is rooted in the need for financial independence. It's a belief shaped by the stories of those I've helped, whose outcomes were significantly improved by taking this proactive step. The difference it makes is not just in the numbers but in the confidence that comes from feeling prepared and supported.

Engaging a financial advocate before the negotiations are settled can provide a strategic advantage, helping you to emerge from this transition on solid financial ground. It's a step towards ending a chapter and beginning a new one with confidence and clarity. Schedule a call with me today and let’s ensure your financial future is as bright as possible.